Sunday, November 6, 2011

Trees and Apples

Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought to yourself "I look exactly like my dad (or mom)?" For the past few years I've had this experience numerous times, and its becoming a bit laughable. From the tiny details like the smell of my clothes, to the big things like my tastes or posture, I have noticed I am taking on the image of my dad in a big way. And there is no one I would rather be like.
It began on my mission, when I noticed I tended to sit with one leg crossed over the other (a posture favored by my dad). Sometimes, its an out of body experience when I'll do or say something and think for a split second that my dad is doing it or saying it, then I realize that it was, in fact, me. When its cold out and we're out hunting or fishing, my dad dries his nose with the pad of his thumb- and I have come, completely unintentionally, to do that same thing. The way my clothes smell. My love for ketchup. The way I do my hair. The way I talk to people. I have come to see that it all comes from my dad!
I feel so fortunate to have been born into the family that I was. And its a bit daunting at this stage of my life to have the responsibility to now take on the role of progenitor. But for now, I'm completely content being a son and still being able to feel like one of my parent's children when I go home.


Saturday, November 5, 2011

Storm Chasing

Last summer was one of the most interesting of my entire life. It all started with Nitro Circus at the former APX building. My friend Garrett Frame got me interested in selling for APX. To make a long story short, we ended up going to Charlotte, NC to sell alarms with Garrett and his wife Kaela, some of our closest friends. As it turned out, Charlotte wasn't such a great place to be selling. Garrett's dad just happened to be a few states away managing construction projects for a company that does major storm damage repair. In April, there was a severe hail storm in the Knoxville, TN area causing millions of dollars of damage to the area. Garrett came over to our apartment in Charlotte to talk to us about the opportunity to go out there and completely change our summer plans. It took me about 2 minutest to realize what a great opportunity it was. My wife, Mindy, took a little bit longer to convince. About a month actually. And I can't say I blame her. It's not easy to pick up everything and move to a new state and start doing something completely new. And this would be the second time in a month.
So a couple hours of packing and driving later, we found ourselves laying on air mattresses in the basement of Garrett's uncle and aunts house in Knoxville. I spent the night trying to reassure Mindy that it was a good decision and that everything would be alright. We did some apartment hunting and realized it would be way much cheaper to share a townhouse with the Frames. And thus the foundation was laid for what turned out to be the most adventurous and exciting summer of my life.

A little about the job. Garrett and I went out for a few days passing out flyers to houses that had sustained major damage. The next week or so our phones were off the hook with distraught homeowners wondering how they were going to get all the damage repaired with the money that insurance had given them. So my job consisted of signing contracts with homeowners, negotiating a fair price with stubborn insurance companies, overseeing actual work by subcontractors, and trying to deal with all the complaints from homeowners that seemed to care way too much about things that they know nothing about. I bought a cheap truck from some redneck that didn't have A/C, but it turned out to be a great truck and I was sad to part with it. So Garrett and I spent about 8 hours a day doing pretty stressful and sometime physically taxing work. But it has turned out to be well worth it.

As hard as we worked, we sure found fun things to do. We would take walks down the river, go fishing, have BBQs, go swimming every night with the Frames, go on lunch cruises up and down the river, go to movies, play Call of Duty with Garrett, play amazing Kinect games in our apartment, dinner with the missionaries, eat at Waffle House and other new places and so many more things. Mindy's parents came out to pick her up and drive back with her. It was awesome to have them see what we had been doing all summer and to stay at our little apartment.

We also spent a lot of time at Garrett's uncle and aunt's house eating food and talking. They were such an awesome family and it was hard to leave them, knowing we would probably never see them again. They have the cutest little son, Thomas, who was always the source of entertainment. He would make up songs and sing them while performing acrobatic stunts. That family was definitely a highlight of the summer.

So all in all, I learned a few things in the short few month of the summer. First, prayer and revelation is the most important tool in making big decisions. Second, living on the other side of the country from anything or anyone familiar built my relationship with my wife more than anything. Last, make everything an adventure and have a positive attitude and anything can be fun.

Friday, November 4, 2011

My New Library

I really don't have much to do this semester besides school, which hasn't been terribly demanding. Therefore I've been looking for new things to do. My brother-in-law's wife, Laura, has a pretty extensive library that always catches my attention when we're over at their house enjoying dinner or a movie. It seems i always find myself reading a few pages of this book or that, depending on her recommendations. My sister Carolyn also has an amazing collection of books from years and years of studying English. Every time I go home, I go down to her shelves to see if she's added anything new that I can steal for a week or two. So with this background, two weeks ago I decided it was time to get a few books of my own, so I could leave Carolyn and Laura's library alone. In a trip to DI that was supposed to last 10 minutes, but turned into an hour, I poured over shelves and shelves of extremely inexpensive books. I walked out with 6 books coming to a grand total of $14. Titles include A Thousand Splendid Suns, Zodiac and Next. I use every spare second that I can to read them, and it has become some of my most enjoyable time throughout the day. There's something to be said about a book that allows you to forget about reality and find yourself in a different world. As it turns out, I'm almost finished with this first set and its nearly time for another trip to DI. Maybe one day, I'll have a library like Laura Dutson or Carolyn Carter.

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Fall Getaways

What a great time of year. This semester has been very different for me, but there are a few things that good old Provo always has to offer. These things include, but are not limited to, the following:

-demanding I be way too conscious of how much facial hair I have (BYU intramurals and testing center)
-drivers that don't really care about what anyone else on the road is doing
-pedestrians crossing 700 and 800 North without so much as looking up to see if a car is coming
-severe lack of parking for undergraduate students
-classes that begin at 5pm and don't get out till 8pm
-responsibility in general

But I can't deny the amazing outdoor resources that Utah valley offers. For the reasons mentioned above and more, I've begun to leave Provo every few days to be in the mountains. It started a few weeks ago on the opening day of elk season. I left with my brother and father-in-law to spend the weekend hunting. What began as a hunting trip turned into a weekend of sitting around an enormous campfire (courtesy of my father-in-law's insatiable desire for a fire big enough to see a mile away) and talking about how we were going to change the world. I can't recall everything that was discussed but here are the highlights:

-the condition of the economy and the obvious choices that will fix it
-the upcoming election and why Ron Paul should win
-food storage and why you should/shouldn't share in the upcoming apocalypse
-the importance of owning lots of guns and ammo, also for said apocalypse
-if living in the city or country is better
-my father-in-law's mischievous youth (ask me for details)
-colonoscopy and other important medical procedures
-global warming
-nuclear waste and why Yucca Mountain is the perfect disposal site
-and much, much more

This trip really got me aching for more so I've been going fishing every few days. These trips have literally been therapy for me and it seems I can't get enough. There are no signs saying I can or can't park in certain places. There's no time constraints dictating how long I can stay. There's no one but myself to rely on to make the trip happen. The fish are huge. There are no pedestrians to watch out for. No one is checking my ID card and facial hair growth. And best of all, there's no one else in my spot but me.